Making Nice with Naughty – eBook


Have too much self-control? “Making Nice with Naughty” is the perfect book for healing the inner suffering of over-controlled people who tend to be rule-oriented and psychologically rigid in ways that interfere with their ability to have rewarding and satisfying sex. Society says self-control is a virtue. Yet, successfully managing emotions, getting the job done, and getting accolades for being detail-oriented, planful, driven, etc., haven’t led to relationship and bedroom success. Others told you that being naughty leads to trouble and that you should live by the rules to be successful. So, you developed your self-control. Society rewards the virtues of self-control. Yet. too much self-control wreaks havoc in areas where vulnerability is essential: intimate relationships and sex life. Get Sage Advice From a Leading Sexologist. It’s time to make nice with naughty! Utilizing several innovative psychotherapies, including Radically Open Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy, and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy, Dr. Thomas L. Murray, Jr. takes you on an eye-opening journey, using humor and directness to help you get what you want: a more fulfilling sex life. Here’s why you’ll love this guide:
  • Discover how (too much) self-control underlies many sexual and relationship problems.
  • Reconnect with your partner using vulnerability’s power.
  • Break Free from Old Patterns of Thinking.
  • Change your relationship with anxiety and embrace uncertainty.
  • Reduce Negative Self-Talk.
  • Enjoy Greater Psychological Flexibility.
  • Apply New and Powerful Mindfulness Techniques.
  • Discover A Better Sex Life that’s Pleasure-Based rather than Performance-Based.
  • And more!
Don’t be left behind. Get practical professional advice to reduce the negative impact of too much self-control.