Dr. Tom


About me…

Who is Tom Murray? I’ll Try to keep it short.

Now, take a deep breath. You’ve arrived at the right place at the right time. With courage and conviction, you’re about to embark on a journey that will lead to healing and greater relationship and sexual satisfaction.

 “I’m a therapist for the non-conformist and the unconventional, as well as those who best delight in Vanilla sex. ”

— Dr. Tom Murray

Approach & Philosophy

Clients tell me that I bring a zen quality to much of my work and that I have an uncanny sense of understanding people, their emotions and motives. I balance this with a straight-forward, no beating-around-the-bush approach.

People, like you, come to me because they desire something different in their lives; they need things to change.

I’m here to support making that difference happen. I’m your advocate, coach, and therapist. I’m TEAM-YOU!!!

My life experiences and extensive training have culminated into an approach influenced by Buddhist psychology, the Work of Byron Katie; Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, as well as Gottman Method Couples Therapy. The latter of which is an empirically informed approach to heal relationships. Ultimately, I seek to personalize an approach that fits with your idea of how change could happen in your life.

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Welcome from Dr. Murray

Tom Murray, PhD–the only doctoral AASECT certified Sex Therapist serving the Triad.

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (FL & NC)
Licensed Professional Counselor (NC)
Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor (NC)
AASECT Certified Sex Therapist
Certified Forensic Mental Health Evaluator
Certified Child Custody Evaluator
Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist
Certified PCOMS trainer
Certified Emotional-CPR Trainer
Gottman Educator: “Bringing Baby Home” and “Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work.”